Hey at least she did not try to stare you down like "my OW" - I always hate that saying (never thought in my life I'd even HAVE and OW - still is surreal to me even after a year!!!!).
You are handling this so well - one classy lady!! I ALWAYS took the high road - made me the better person in the end. Friends who know about our sitch cannot believe the effort I have given - but what was the alternative? Give up? We LBSs do it all just to be able to say in the end we tried our hardest.
It will get easier - trust me. I still see OW 2-3 times a week at the school and she does not bother me anymore - the first time I freaked now it just rolls off my back... I only have one more year and then my 5th grader will be in the middle school and she will have another year at the elementary. Our two oldest will graduate high school together - that should be interesting in 5 yrs or so...
Your H sounds so much like mine - it's amazing how our WAS use the same lines almost word for word... It is an addiction - and they need to not talk to or see the OP for sometime to really be over it. If they do talk it's like starting all over from day one...the marriage builders site has some good info on this...
Take care and hang in there - you are doing awesome considering how fast your sitch is moing along!!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
