That cyber cheesecake hit the spot. Yeah, I don't think I'll say anything more. I'm sure H will think that I'm checking up on him and try to hide some things anyway.
Hmmmmm.....I honestly didn't think of it as a trap. Interesting. Makes sense though. How on earth could you ever just let things like that sit if you don't want your spouse to see it. My goodness, when I saw it, I started to hyperventilate. I literally could not breathe. My throat started to close up and I had to tell myself to breathe. I'm sure that's part of what made my h quickly move out to the den.
Thanks again Pamar. You're awesome!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day