W is not much of a talker anyway, and we are having very little contact, so I am clueless about what is going on in her mind.
I have been dating. It has been very healthy for me personally. I have been deprived of much for too long. WE ALL DESERVE TO BE HAPPY!
If that happened, it would be so hard. I am so much more detached, and the thought of slogging through re-building a R with her is terrifying. It would be such hard work, and would take so long, and I'm not at all sure it would work or be worth it.
Later, Nomo
My H is the same way. Not much of a talker. I asked him in the beginning if he had nothing to say about any of it. How can you talk things out when one person is unwilling. He said he had a million things in his head but he wouldn't speak them until he sorted them out. I guess he just ignored everything and went the easy way out to be with OW so he didn't have to talk.
Yes we do all deserve to be happy and no use sitting at home while S is out having fun not even giving you or the M/R one single thought. It feels good to go out and date but I am taking things real slow. I don't want to jump into a full time A as I still want to do things with friends also.
I was just pondering today how strange it would be if H wanted to work things out. I would feel like he was a stranger if we would move in right away. Would have to start dating H again like a kid in order to start feeling comfortable with him. Just as-if he was a stranger that you just met.
Glad you are feeling good again.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
