Thank you! No, I don't think H does get it. It just hit me that the time I posted about him having taken his ring off when he was out & then putting it back on before he thought I was awake was about the last time that he would have seen her.....two weeks ago. VOMIT!!!
H called me a few minutes ago. He wanted to let me know that the furniture store had called. The table/chairs set that I'd ordered is in. I saw it was him calling. H: Yeah, the store called. Me: Okay. H: They said the table/chairs are in. Me: Okay.....anything else? H: No, just trying to get some business done here the last few days of the month. Me: Okay. H: Well, I have to go. I'll talk to you later. Me: Okay.
I guess that wasn't a very good job of "as if", but damn it, I'm pissed. No matter how many ups and downs we have or OW & her H have, they had NO RIGHT to do this.....NO RIGHT. He kept telling me that I'm the one that needs to be stronger......but I'm not the one weak enough to need to run to someone else instead of coming to my own W to get our issues solved.
I feel like fire is blowing out my eyes, ears & mouth right now. I'm so heated up.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day