(((hugs))) Sues... Im sorry, what a smack you got. But you know what you are going to feel everything from saddness to being angry and that is normal. I would just keep to yourself and not say too much to him, just what you have to.. I don't know if that goes against dbing.. but I think for your own sanity you need to have some distance between you.. i know it helps me sort things out. Please take care of yourself. Aside from me feeling like I could smack him ;\)

I don't think he gets it, that its inappropriate to have this kind of relationship with her especially after he has been "with her" Its just wrong.. does he not see that??? I don't understand it, what if it was you doing these things?? I don't think he'd like it too much.

Please hang in there, we are all here for you, you are doing great.. be strong..

\:\) tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.