I think this attraction you are ooooozing indicates you've detached and GALed. Now you just have to accept the fact you are a man-magnet.

Oh, and your original question about OW. For her to hang on so desperately to a married man who can't give 100% to her shows desperation and unhealthy attachment. She's definitely not a man-magnet.


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.