I asked H to leave; regret-now what?

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I read Homer and there was a lot of good information-but I don't agree with the dating. Especially with my H. Both of his x's had affairs. This wouldn't work for me.

I'm the one who asked him to leave and I know I made a big mistake. I'm confused. It looks like my H and I are at a stalemate or impasse. He's gone dark on me. My confusion is that if I continue to go dark on him there is no contact; and when I leave a voicemail for him about a business situation (and it's "happy talk, brief" (Homer) I still don't get a response. (well once in 5 weeks).

This no contact doesn't seem to be working. There must be another way for my situation.

Five days after asking H to leave I wrote him a letter of apology for my actions and asked him to forgive me for hurting him. Do I need to keep apologizing. I don't think he believes my first apology and I think he is still hurting.

What is working is keeping myself busy with learning what I did wrong and how to handle my anger and hurt. I've read many books and I see where I have been wrong and have a lot to learn.

How do you show love and acceptance when there is no contact?