Pamar-

I'm so glad to see that you had a great time at the movie. Holding hands......that sounds nice.....I'd love to have that right now. It's a nice sign. That's the part I miss, is the hugs, hand holding, small kisses....etc. Everything else has been okay, but that.

If you don't mind me asking, what do you and your wife do for a living? I had another confrontation with H this morning & later was telling a good friend about it. I told her as sick as it makes me feel, I understand how they became connected. Both her husband and I work during the day. H & OW stayed home during the day with our kids and worked together at night. Neither, apparently, was perfectly happy in their M's and started talking. My H wanted to leave his job for a different company a few months back and then found the position (w/in the same co.) that he has now. There's always that....why didn't I....question that comes into my head. I was so happy that H had found a good company to work for that I told him that I'd help him find something new, but that staying with this co. would be good because they're stable and he can grow a career there. How did I know though??

Sorry to hijack your thread. I'm glad you're feeling up.

There's an HBO series that I'd love to see about couples & their marriage problems called "Tell Me You Love Me". I'd love to start watching it. I'm sure it would fit some of our sitch's.

Take care- SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day