Had quite a bad day today, at my request my husband came to collect the rest of his things which involved tears from both of us. My husband still claims he is not confused, 13 months on, he looked me in the eye today and told me he is sure and that he is happy. He is going to be signing the divorce papers this week and so there is not much else to say.
I am proud of myself for the way i have handled things over these last 13 months but it does not appear to have changed anything with regards to my husbands decision, he is not even waivering slightly. Now i feel like there is nothing left to fight for and so i am just accepting that my marriage is over.
I'm not sure if or how long i will continue to post on this forum, sometimes i think maybe it would be easier to just stop posting, forget it all and get on with my life. I have recieved support from a couple of people who i am grateful to, they have helped me to understands things better.
On a positive note, i forgot to mention that at that 70's party i went to, the young guy who has flirted with me previously, was also flirting with me then as well . According to my sister he was talking about me all night. Good for my PMA .
Hope everyone is ok
Nicky
Last edited by nickyf; 09/25/0705:08 PM.
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
. According to my sister he was talking about me all night. Good for my PMA 
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