I get how you feel about your sadness of H having the kids over the weekend. My H at the start of his R w/ OW use to do the step family thing all the time and take the kids w/ OW evrywhere we had stop going to, zoo,beach,etc. It hurt everytime they got back and were so happy to tell me what they did. Now that he thinks there might be OM in my life he says how it husrts him to think another man might father his girls. SO H has stopped doing al the outings for awhile inlcuding OW. Told me that was only "in the beginning"?
Tonight is H' regular visit and I am making sure the house is clean too. H has commented on how it is always clean when he comes over.
I have only asked H stay a bit later w/ the girls one tiem last week (dinner out w/ the boss) and he gave me a hard tiem b/c he thinks Im dating imaginary BF.
