As far as a B-Day gift idea get her something personal that she can use to make herself feel better. A gift to a spa or one to get her hair or nails done. My wife told me the same thing about not wanting anything materialistic for her b-day either. I bought her a gift certificate to a spa and now she jokes to me all the time that she thinks her b-day is coming up next week, she wants to go to the spa again. But, that is something she would never purchase or do for herself. Just a thought.


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“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07