"I get attention elsewhere" whops! that sounded wrong, I meant, everyone else (family/coworkers) complement me. Though I know what you mean in your wife's case. Is there a rec center nearby that perhaps she can go to 2x a week? there usually offer aerobics,step,belly dancing even at the price of a few bucks, wonder if she'd like that?

Good luck with putting your 3yr old in his own room, for a while perhaps one of you will have to be with him on the room until he gets used to it, it will be tough for him at the beginning.

Take care W))))


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.