she has informed me not to get her anything materialistic for her birthday...so o.k., I wont...any ideas? she's also coming up with a weekend plan of when she has the kids/I have the kids. Of course, I have them while she's off traveling with her friends living it up. She's trying to kick me out when she wants them. I'd prefer to take them while she's here so she can be by herself and think about it a little. Also, I am considering recommending to her that she leave the house for awhile to really determine what she wants. She's pushing so hard for space. I think it would be good for her to get away from me, her friends, and all the pressure for a bit and look at this on her own. She has agreed to individual counseling, I think this will really help.
