Yes, she has an EA with a married man in another state, he's the VP in her group at work, how nice that he's there to help.
I guess that's my dilemma, when to suggest an MC. We had one a long time ago, but neither of us liked her and stopped going. At the time I thought things were getting better so I didn't look into getting an new MC, a big mistake in retrospect. A lesson learned there is that even if it seems like things are getting better, that's no time to relax, still need to keep working on all the right things as if the train is still in the ditch.
Now, I think an MC would be very helpful. She seems to have doubts about her decision, or at least she's not happy, a bit lonely, and has been reaching out more to me to let me know about what she's up to.
But, I think some of the progress has been due to my progress at GALing, and acting as if I am all good. If I start asking her to go to a MC, then I am back in pursuit mode, hard to tell when she might like to know that I am still interested, and when it will be perceived as pressure again.
I'm not familiar with Retrouvaille weekend, what is that?
