I'm not sticking up for your H, but it does sound to me like he is trying to reach out to you, and for whatever reason, doesn't feel safe within himself to proceed with you.
But to take what he IS giving you and say... 'eh... no juice.' Wow. That just doesn't sound like you.
Is there anything you can do to open the door, just a little for him... ??? Maybe bring home a bottle of wine and suggest you and he drink it later together while you listen to his CD?
