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I must have miscommunicated about things 'being too hard'. He told me that if it is too hard for ME,...


Oh, i completely understood that. It's a cop-out from him.
That's a softer variant of the old classic, "Honey, i have to divorce you, because I want YOU to be happy".. Uhhhhh. yeah. sure.

They recognize that they want something wrong, so they are reluctant to do it for themselves.. but they're trying to transform it into something "right", and 'noble', by doing it "for you".

NOT!



and/or, he's testing you to see how long you will stick with him, and how much he can get away with.

sheesh. what a baby...


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Okay, I'll rephrase the plan B thing. If it becomes clear that he is just using me as a bandaid until he finds someone else, I will go to plan B. How's that?


well.... i can salute you, for taking ownership of the choice, at least \:\)
Not the choice that I personally would make. Because for one thing: you are not a mindreader. It would never be 100% sure.
If he actually started DATING someone else, on the other hand, I'd say that's a different ball game.

Last edited by Dom R; 09/25/07 04:01 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle