Dont undersell yourself, or her. I dont think those are her "real feelings". Yes, I think they "are real". but I think that the other, more positive feelings are "real", too.
The big question is, which ones are going to get her attention more.
Sometimes, seems like we can find solutions to all the "problems" they tell us about... but it wont help, because they arent telling us what is truely bothering them. And THAT problem, may be something that we cant "fix", anyways.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
