In my case, my WAW is the OW in a relationship with some guy who has a serious girlfriend, has an EA with a married man in another state, and has sent nude photos of herself to a guy she had sex with while on a 'girls' weekend.
She recently found out I know all this and she justifies it all and does not believe she is suffering from anything. As such, I plan to move on myself.
Best of luck to you ME, I am happy for your 'new' marriage!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM