Filing is on the horizon...

[JMC]

Just a few things here, as again, your sitch seems similar to mine. Regarding who files, I have always been of the opinion that is she wants it so bad then let her suffer the indignity of having to file, but more recently I am getting sick of the infidelity and general crazy behavior on her part.

I still believe that things could work in my case, and it would seem they could in yours as well. I have read here many times that it is best to follow your gut and file only if YOU want too. I am getting to that point, as it is becoming painfully clear to me that my WAW has, sadly, moved on and seems to have little care now about throwing away our relationship and that of our many friends and family.

Is your W seeing another man? Have you discussed a MC or Retrouvaille weekend?