Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

trying....

No, I didn't see anything that would tell me how far it's gone. Just the pet names, which drives me crazy. PA or not, there's definately an emotional connection. I know I was in no emotional postion before to confront him, but now it makes me wonder if I'd done it long ago, would it have helped?

I thought about asking him other questions, like...
-If she's not completely happy in her M and you're talking like this, does that mean you're not completely happy in ours? I didn't want to hear the answer to that.

No, I don't think he'd take very kindly to me and another man calling each other baby & hun. I think he'd be walking out the door with a big middle finger pointing back at me.

He didn't say anything about why OW's H doesn't know. I'm sure because they know that it's not right and that it would hurt him as much as it's hurting me. Then again, she doesn't know, so she has no idea how much it hurts me.

His last A was horrible. He was angry all the time, rarely talked to me, was rude when he did. No remorse whatsoever, until we reconciled. He did deny the OW & A at first then, but one night he got drunk & admitted it, saying that it had nothing to do with me. WHAT???? Your f-ing someone else but is has nothing to do with me?

I'm not sure what to do now? Do I calmly bring it up tonight and just add my last couple of thoughts.....not rude, just calm or do I let it go a few days and possibly leave him a card/letter when I leave for the weekend? Any thoughts.

Thanks- SueS