Oh Sue! You could have copied and pasted a few of my posts this past August. I am so sorry!!! I wanted to warn you though, even though you don't feel like crying now, or don't really feel 'hurt', it might sink in a bit in a day or two, and that's ok. Just know it might happen and its something you will go through. There is something 'concrete' about finding evidence. You'll still empowered after the tears, trust me.
You said everything right, girl!!! I am very proud of you. I hate that he talked about you and your marriage to her. My H denied they did, but then admitted it a bit, then OW's H told me what they both had said. Honestly though, why would they be in this secret friendship if they both said "Hey, our marriages are great, let's start something". Don't let that bother you too much. H's actions towards you are more important than what lies he tells her.
I would 'as if' his hiney off for the rest of the week. You were in limbo and now its good that this happened, because you got to restate your position on things. I'll be thinking of you.
