So, I see some signs of H noticing the gulf. Periodically during the year he has done this - said he "missed" me, sent flowers to my work to say the same, left me a wedding cd from a business associate this morning with love songs on it.

The really sad thing is that this stuff has no "juice" to it. It isn't followed with a passionate kiss at home, nor any at all unless it is a little peck. It is isn't followed by a suggestive whisper in the ear or even a straight out "How about we put the baby to bed and get to gettin?". There aren't compliments about my ravishing beauty or even the booty that I have been working out so hard lately.

We'll see what the recent signs of recognition bring........ Oh yeah, there is a family vacation coming up probably nothing will happen until then.

Karen