Women like to be hugged and feel affection when they feel bad, that's what WE like, but that's not necesarily what men want when they feel bad, they need space. I remember when my H hit rock bottom while we were S, and I hugged him, felt like hugging a stone, I was trying to make him feel better but prob he felt worse by the fact that he couldnt' hug me back and had no affection to give me.
That is mostly true. There are exceptions however. For example, I'm the one that always needs a hug. My W on the other hand wants to be left alone to cool down. Hugging her just makes her angrier and she feels like a rock.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
