she prob means they married in 1993, I doubt she had a child at 87.
I also went to C as soon as we separated. My H was prob just humoring me or something, he wouldn't cooperate, was quiet, didnt' answer questions. This is called the "anger" stage, they are angry at you and blame you for all, he needs at least a month or two to work the anger out of his system. This are the hardest first months of S. Keep to the DB book, don't be needy nor seem desperate, tell him you agree that you both need time. Whenever you see him, be the kind of wife he could be coming home to.
Dont' loose hope, focus on yourself and fill your time with activities to renew your spirit. You can do it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
