Oh, and while I'm posting, the W's birthday is Saturday. I plan to help the kids shop for her (they are still much to young to do it themselves) and will help the oldest, she's 7, bake a cake on Friday. She has invited me over on Saturday morning, we usually eat cake for breakfast when anyone has a birthday. She's having 6-7 people over Sat evening, which I'm not invited to, but didn't expect to be. Do I get her a gift and a card? I was thinking yes on the gift, something small like a book. The card stumps me, how nice of a card, just a friendly Happy Birthday card than anyone would get, or a more romantic card that I would normally get?
