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SO2,

A great weekend, what about the whole R? Your C is right he is cake-eating and will keep doing it if he is allowed.

Time to Feel the Fear and do it anyway. That is set the boundry.

May I suggest that you tell him that he has choices to make. That you won't force him to do anything he doesn't want but , as long as he is contacting Ow's then you have made your choice also. No contact with you. that you want him but, not as things are now and, that you can live without him and be happy.

Something to that effect.

Your C sounded good from what you have said. Did you like your C?

How much and what kind of contact has there been since the Ow incident?

You really need to decide for you what you are willing to put up with as far as Xh's antics go. Your getting there, remember detach, and take care of you and your children.

JAK


Last edited by jak58; 09/25/07 01:49 PM.
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