Cac Since my Divorce I lowered my standard of living in order to afford to help my D13 but also to attain freedom to do whatever. Living in a small RV provides no bragging rights to females but I take on jobs I consider a rocking good time and avoid jobs that bore the heck out of me. It's more fun to have fun.
Yesterday I went in for a knee consult to see if I could get to a point ever to run again. Was told you are the best it's gonna get thus many adventures expereinced in the past are closed. No worries find new ones. God is in control and he wired me up for adrendlin so it's his job but I gotta look.
This is similar to a LBS who's identity is lost to the loss of the M reguardless of who screwed up more. Hardest thing to do is create a new vision and work for it. Sometimes you just gotta dive in to find your identity and you hit a rock get out and dive in somewhere else. It's not easy or quick.
I'm off my soapbox If I'm off base I apologize.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin