I am going to take a wait and see approach to all of this. If he continues dating others and doesn't want to continue to MC/IC for himself then so be it. I can only control me.

Until this Sep I had some body image issues that caused me to become too thin and was spending was too much time at the gym. As some of you know I rebelled and got hooked on junk food. Needless to say I am now getting a little wobbly and not feeling so great so I am going head back to the gym and pick up a few more hobbies to keep me busy. Try not to worry about my sitch and just see what happens.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.