i didnt really know act as if meant act if they are coming back.....i took it as acting if you going about your stuff. at least that is what i did...i was just doing, having my life slowly stepping towards moving on, but no fanfare. i dint let him see the hurt, i just carried on.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest