i didnt really know act as if meant act if they are coming back.....i took it as acting if you going about your stuff. at least that is what i did...i was just doing, having my life slowly stepping towards moving on, but no fanfare. i dint let him see the hurt, i just carried on.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest