Alright here is an update of what has been happening. My S and I went away for the weekend but before we left H offered to change the oil in my car this week. Something he has known that I needed done for about a month but he is offering now. When he told me he would do it he then added "If you have not already had it done" and said it with an attitude like he was kind of expecting me to have had it done and was mad about it.
Yesterday when I got home he was there to work on a vehicle in his garage. It was just like a normal home night for us. He had some friends over and was working in the garage and our S and I were outside playing and then we went inside and did our normal nightly routine. He came in when he was done and said he was leaving to go take a nap since he works 3rd shift.
Anyway this morning we did the swap of our S and he did not want to go with him. He never does but this morning was really bad. Well why I was calming down our S and getting him to go a friend of my H's came over and was talking to him and I heard him refer to our house as his HOME. He said it two times. I know I said I was going to stop trying to figure him out but I was just wondering do you think it is good that he still thinks of our house as home. I know it may mean nothing but I was just wondering if that could mean something. He has been different the past week but I am not really sure about anything and it is getting so tough to just keep being patient. I am not a patient person.