What is reasonable and what is not?

[cpolk]

SO2,
Sounds like you've got some thinkin' to do.

I suppose you can look at it one of two ways. 1. you continue on with the highs and lows of the roller coaster that you are on; going for a few days then slumping over and over. 2. distance yourself until he figures out what he's doing; that initial emptiness will pass then you'll be back on an even keel until he figures it out.

I guess it just depends on how much BS you are able to stomach in the name of reconcilling.