I will agree that I am a bit bewildered at how the conversation turned. Like I said to cac earlier, the regret he feels at his loss is understandable, and if he wants to have a pity party every now and then ... so what? I'm not going to fault him for it. As long as it isn't a CONSTANT source of hurt or pain that negatively impacts his entire life, his marriage, his R with his kids, who cares? Granted, pity parties are not the ideal state to be in, but neither is sitting on the couch watching a brainless romance movie eating a tub of ice cream. But sometimes yah gotta do what yah gotta do.
Everyone has something that they regret, some have had that regret forced upon them. Many take it out on their kids. It doesn't sound like cac is doing that, in fact quite the opposite. And while he may be having problems in his M, it sounds like there has been some improvement there too.
Then again, maybe I'm missing something here, which wouldn't be a big suprise.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
