You're right. I'm sorry. I was very depressed and emotional last night and shouldn't have been posting while in that frame of mind. Just goes to show me that I do need to talk to my doctor about the depression and medication for it. This is a forum for marriage.....not health problems. I will try to stay focused on that and try to keep the two separated. I didn't realize how much I had been talking about health instead of the MR. I'll try my best not to talk about the FM any more. And, I'll try my best to be more positive and see the positive things in my H. I hope you all won't give up on me.


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and it is the "manner" that it is said to me that hurts.
Two things here. The manner the poster intends and what you hear can be different.

I know by the way it is said that they are "mocking" me.
I certainly don’t intend to mock anyone. Mrs. Cac is sympathetic, Dom had some in-your-face advice.


BTW, I was really refering to the people at work more than the ones on the board, which I didn't make very plain. You all can't help what happens to me at work and I shouldn't carry it over to the ones here. It just triggered that emotion in me when a couple of things were said. Again, I'm sorry.....

Last edited by sandi2; 09/25/07 10:28 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!