D-Busted Now Back Here - 3 Month Update

[mkultra]

I agree with Amy that children of school age need to have a primary home for school nights. 4-8 seems OK if you continue some kind of parallel coparenting where homework, dinner, playdates, Scouts, sports, etc. are at the same time with both parents. Do not think of yourself as a babysitter but it is OK if you feel like one at times, we all do. I am also biased that children should not live out of backpacks. I hate to say this, but as a kid of divorce I am glad I did not have to move back and forth. The unfortunate downside was that my mom was always "The Bad Guy" and my dad was always the "Disney Dad". But I think we probably know a lot more about coparenting with all the self help books out there. Good luck. I know you will do what is best for your family, even if it is not the ideal sitch there will always be love and you will stay close. I am still veru close to my Dad and I did not live with him during the school year.