Read DR pronto. Listen to Light Her Fire by Dr. Ellen, then write down some goals that you can achieve. Goals that will rebuild trust in your R away from the business or not.
Then write down some 180's that she can see. If you are usually aggressive, turn it into the one who needs some leadership or advice. If you are the one who takes orders then start to be more independent. 180. Chart the progress. If it works, then count it as status quo and do not waiver. Be patient if you do not see postive results because she may think the changes are just a way to get her to come back.
Try to stay in the same dwelling so she can see the changes more immediately. You can even show the 180's whilst at work, I suppose.
Sounds like the business is your baby and you are a couple that cannot agree on how to discipline and raise the kids! Of course it is impossible to drop all obligations in family and business so rememberto take care of yourself and your home and your business.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
