I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. \:\)

I must have miscommunicated about things 'being too hard'. He told me that if it is too hard for ME, that I am a big girl and have the freedom to cut him off/tell him to call when he is straightened out.

Okay, I'll rephrase the plan B thing. If it becomes clear that he is just using me as a bandaid until he finds someone else, I will go to plan B. How's that? \:\)

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing