As Just_Me stated you do need to get it in writing. That is obvious, at least I hope so.
His roll and my roll are reversed. His wife has your D the majority of the time. I have my S the majority of the time. My point is he should try to get all the visitation time he can get whenever he is available (yes and in writing), similar to what my wife has. My wife did not request the week nights so it was not put into our divorce decree. She requested Fri 6 p.m. to Sun 9 p.m. If you have weekends of use those days for visitation. If you work weekends and have days off during the week take those days. If you can get more then by all means take ever second she will agree to. I personally like to have my son during the weekdays. It allows me to be more involved with his life and his day to day growth. I am involved in all his school work and what kind of little boy he is becoming. My wife gets him on the weekends, which is just play time for him. I personally would much rather be the parent, roll model, teacher, then his playmate. But that is me.
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