I think on Mark's thread we were discussing how our WAS's have a lot of traits in common. My male coworker (45 yrs old) is recovering from the A his wife had a year ago. She was the same way with her kids, quite standoffish, putting her needs first, allowing my friend to do the hands on/touchy stuff. She wouldn't even seek her kids out at night for kisses/hugs before they slept. Anyway, I know your W isn't that way, but it just reminded me of that.
You make a call to the doctor if you are bothered tomorrow.
I am mad at your W for not stepping in and helping, or even standing outside to support him.
