I was almost a WAW (and still am-- in my heart?)

[Dom R]

I have no energy to do anything. How can life have much meaning when it takes all you've got to just try to make it through the work day?

drink a gatorade

My H knows me so well and he would know instantly if my heart was not in it. I don't think he would do it (have sex). I have already told about that in past thread.

there is a BIG difference between "I'm tired", or, "I'm not horney", or "I dont want to", and various other excuses.

This is about CHOICES YOU MAKE, sandi.
here are some questions. and they are NOT rhetorical ones:

1. Do you love your husband?

2. Do you like to make him feel good?

3. Do you like making him happy?

4. Do your voice and face muscles work? (ok, that one was rhetorical )

My point being... if you were at the point where you decided that you should "just do it".. It it was merely a matter of lacking energy, and "drive"... you are still 100% capable of inviting your husband to "party" with you, and then smiling at him, and telling him that you love hiim, and admiring him, and showing him with your voice and face that it makes you happy, to see him happy, and to feel him be with you.

But lack of energy/drive isnt the problem, is it?

I'm guessing you're still at the "creepy crawlies" stage.
(and doing a problem avoidance dance :P )

So I'd suggest just get back to working on that.