I remember you having that direct conversation with your H back then...I think I sort of channeled your example when I did it with my H. Hopefully we'll reach the same result....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!