Here we go 'round in circles...

[SDFoundGirl]

The good news is, you can approach the bombing from a more caring and sensitive position than an alien-possessed MLC whack job. You can bomb with the honest intention of hoping it wakes H up and shows him it's time to get some skin in the game. And you can even point the way if he's willing to start down the road to growth and a better relationship.

I really hope he steps up to the plate. (If he doesn't, well, that man is a d@mned fool. You are one in a million.)

D@mn straight! I don't worry about what would happen IF anymore...I know my prospects are great. I am freaking fantastic.

So yes, I totally dropped the bomb on his booty. He turned white...was speechless...got kinda small. I let it sink in, and when he tried to initiate other conversation, I returned to Acting As If. I don't have to be angry with him. Either he'll try or he won't; ultimately it's his choice, not mine. Same with the whore. I like staying in my own sphere of responsibility. I've communicated my needs and expectations...now it's his turn to make a decision.

Meanwhile I am living happy, happy life. S'all good.

Thanks for your thoughts on the matter. You've pretty much articulated what's been floating around in my brain in spastic bits and pieces!

SD