we love lissie

[brandnewday]

There was once a time when this board was very serious.

Then along came Simes, and Jack, Jeanette, Lis and a few others who made my journey just a little more palatable.

And somewhere along the way some things went a bit awry.

And feelings got hurt, and lines were crossed and we somehow forgot the real reason why we are all here.

Everyone has something to contribute to this place.

There is nobody better, or worse, just some a little further on in their DB adventure.

As we take the time to get to know each poster, we can see that the very fact that they began posting was to originally save their marriage, rather then just quit trying.

That means something, especially to me.

It shows that they have character, and they know what commitment means.

Sometimes we need a little nudge in the right direction, or a 2x4, depending on the situation.

Sometimes we also need to remember, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend".

We don't always hear what we want to, and sometimes even when we genuinely care about someone, we are obligated to tell the truth, and not just say the words that tickle our fancy.

There have been times when I too have given my opinion of something and have been blasted, because maybe my words just didn't make sense.

I remember when I posted something to Jeanette and she flipped out. We spoke on the phone about it and sorted out the misunderstanding immediately.

I think it is absolutely wonderful that so many come running to the aid of Lissie, she is a very special person. But she is also a grown up woman who has no problem fighting her own battles.

My God, the woman knows how to box!!!

She already knows she is loved, she knows who her friends are and she knows how to pick up a phone.

I do think that there has been too much pressure on Lis to "perform" and to be everyone's bestest friend.

Although this thread is a very kind and thoughtful idea, it may just be a little over the top.

As I have already said, there are many people on this board that have contributed and have wonderful things to share that don't have special tributes paid to them.

((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

TO EVERYONE!!!!