andy, tough question. I am sure W didn't forget about your request to keep OM out of house, so I guess bringing it up again would just bring tension. And saffie is right, a parent is on constant standby when sleepovers are involved.
However, I know of your worry and concern (and some dread), and I feel for you. Seems like W is in a different place (a little out of the fog for whatever reason) and is respecting you more. Have a safe trip!
