I don't know--they have tried to support me. They took me out to dinner, too. I have called them and I noticed MIL's look of dismay when I said "Well, H is evidently extremely serious about OW and I am sure there are good qualities about her."

Plus I can't say--H does tend to exaggerate. He is their son and they are going to listen to him first.

H seemed to have slightly moony looks again today. Whatever.

We have a mediation on Wednesday which has me extremely stressed out. I did a little bit of yoga and used part of my lunch hour to walk by the water lillies in the park.

It occurred to me that if he files, I could talk to a L about dragging out the process as well as the legal protection of a LS, so maybe it's not a bad plan.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D