SO2, If I may; I'd like to suggest a book I read 'Healling a Painful Relationship and If Necessary Part As Friends'. Within this book are some suggestions on how to 'release' him. I may have already suggested this read to you not sure; to lazy to search your thread.
I did worlds for me; it was my first read before I knew of DBing. Helped as much as the DBing book. Just helped in a different direction. I think I had to pick it up from Amazon or Barnes and Noble.
Keep pressing forward; we've no time to get bogged down. If they want to keep us they'll keep up.
Me36 W34 M13 K B10 B12 Bomb 06/07 Near WAW Me EA over W EA/PA over, contact with OM ended 08/07 W had to decide OM or Me; Still at home