Paul- Although I haven't posted on your thread, I have been "lurking" for some time. Keep up that good work. What you are doing (and not doing) is having a real effect. Keep up the good work!!
I am not sure what "feeling the lurve" is, but I can assure you that I am feeling none of it.
lwb- If you think it's dorky... so does your husband. And if he supports your "dorkiness," well, that's a very good sign.