Oh my goodness, Dom. Are you familiar with karen's story from the last few years? From what you wrote, I'm guessing not. Don't draw conclusions from what she has posted recently. There's a whole lot of history here...
nope, i'm not familiar with it. I just read her posts from this thread.
But sometimes, that can be an advantage. A certain person I've posted to a lot recently (cough) let a very looong history, get in the way of better relations with her husband. It is a not-too-uncommon phenomenon, it would seem, for dwelling on "history", to get in the way of a good "present". (to put it in "DB" terms... starting with a "beginner's mind", and all that)
Reguardless of history, seems like Karen is engaged in behaviour that is destructive to her own happiness in her marriage.
If she's posting here, then shouldnt she be interested in identifying, and then stopping, that sort of behaviour?
Last edited by Dom R; 09/24/0711:37 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
