I felt it was a good weekend and I just decided not to think about it for a few hours!!
That's great!!!
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If I should wait a little while & ask if they're still communicating (which I know they are) or if I should stay back, GAL, 180 and hope that it fades
This is tough. For many weeks, I played this messed up game with H.
"Are you guys still talking"
"Yes".
Then I had nothing. I had tried to draw a line in their communication ending a long time ago and he didn't do this. Where do I go from there? I stopped asking for a couple weeks, and the one time I tried to talk about it after that, remember he blew up on me, raging about how unhappy HE is with ME, turning it around.
I guess what I am saying is, if he is going to talk to her, you asking him to stop probably won't help at this time. He knows you know, he knows you don't like it, now its up to him what to do about it. I know you can't go forever like this, waiting and not asking, but maybe give it some more time.
Is your H a person that would approach you with relationship talk, or would your marriage just start getting better on its own? Does that make sense?
