Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

Oh Pamar! You know just what to say to make me smile!! I love cheesecake! That might get you somewhere!

Tired & TAL........I do want to go out. It would have to be a weekend, or I guess a Friday night. H's schedule doesn't allow for me to just call him and ask him to pick D3 up from school. I have a friend that emailed me last night asking if she could see me soon. She lives about 2 hours away. We haven't seen each other in years! We were great friends and drifted apart. We might get together soon. I have another friend that told me we could get together soon too. The thing is that I need a "fun" friend to do it with. I need H to think I'm out with someone that could get me in some trouble!! D3 and I are going to my parent's house this weekend. H surprised me by asking when the next time would be that my parents would be here. My father has cancer & goes to the Mayo Clinic here in MN for his check ups. He's going back in Oct. H wanted to know so he wouldn't be scheduled to work the Sat. they are here.

I called H this afternoon just before his lunch (no, not pursuing) to ask him a D3 question. He didn't have much to say and told me that he was going to go out to dinner with some guys from work. I kind of let it go and told him I had to get back to work. H called back about 30 minutes later and apologized for being quiet. He said that he had 3 emails from other departments coming in when he was on the phone with me and he was having issues with a few loans. We talked about this weekend. He originally asked me if I was leaving on Fri. or Sat. & then said....you know what, you leave & come home when you want to, I don't want you to take more vaca. than you need or want to. He was originally supposed to go to a concert on Sun. night. I told him that I was tired of him having to go by himself & reminded him of how he just got done telling someone how he has to go alone because of us not having a babysitter. He told me that he was going to try to sell the tickets and if he absolutely couldn't get rid of them them he was going to take his buddy (who I know). Then we talked about where he was going to dinner tonight. That got us on to talking about some other restaurant that he said he wants us to try. When we were getting off the phone, he just sat there. I said....okay, I'll talk to you later. He said...okay hun and then he just sat there. I said...love you. He said love you too and we got off. It was like he was waiting to see if I'd say it.

I need to go and get D3 some dinner. It's raining here and our Direct TV is out AGAIN. Some fun!

SueS