tired, I wouldn't think swirling, but I think H is less angry these days, and knows he can approach me about R stuff without feeling smothered. I don't know if my boundary was necessary, but darnit, I had to put it out there.
Mark, Thanks. I feel like a rock these days. Man oh man, I would never want to be the cheater, the guilty one. I can see the disgust (for himself) in H's face when he talks of what he had done. I don't know if I could live that way, and I can sure understand why some run instead of facing their feelings!
Sara, thanks. I feel pretty darn positive today despite the fact I am so sick.
